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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. Ex and I had our conversation. I took the advice I got here and mostly listened, not getting emotional or making any demands.

Ex hoped I would agree to ds being with him the whole summer, except for the week after school lets out, and the week before school starts again! Seriously?! I calmly said that was a no go. That would give me and ds no time to relax or have fun together. Definitely no time for us to take a trip! Ds agreed that he wanted enough days with me in the summer to actually DO something together. Ex said he would think on that.

I asked if Ex was planning on visiting ds here at any time during the school year (no), or if he was expecting to have ds come to him at any time other than either Spring or Winter break (also no). Ex said he would pay for ds to take a flight back and forth. I asked, what about if ds has summer opportunities he wants to stay in DC for, and Ex said we'd discuss that when and if it happened.

He also said that he would adjust child support, although he wouldn't give a single detail of his thoughts on that.

Basically, we had a civil conversation that didn't really decide anything.

For the record, Ex has less than 50/50 custody by HIS choice. He and his lawyer worked out the balance so that he could have the least visitation and pay the lowest amount of child support. I don't know what gives some posters the idea that I am shafting Ex![/quote]

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