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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Unless a man is in his 30s and has a steady job, he is not looking to settle. He is only looking for sex. [/b]

Women need to understand it and work towards becoming more independent in their 20s.

Women need to do the following in their 20s and trust me that they will not be lacking for serious, good quality and suitable suitors.
-Get their professional credentials in order. Study, intern, get degrees.
-Travel
-Build a nest egg by maxing out retirement saving as much as possible.
-Consider buying a condo or house if you are stable in your profession and intend to stay at a place for 5 years or so.
-Take care of their health and fitness, work towards their mental health or other issues fixed through therapy and workshops
-Take care of any cosmetic issues - lasik, laser hair removal, crooked teeth etc
- Develop hobbies, get involved with charities and non-profit work.
- Connect with people and keep in touch with them. Develop and nurture professional connections. Network.
- Expand their personal horizon, get new experiences - sports, travel, museums, art, theatre, book clubs, try new food, learn new language. 
- Date a lot of people who treat you nicely from different walks of life. 
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What has happened to make men this way? [/quote]

Feminism made marriage a shit deal for men, and allowed men to get sex without it. Men are just playing by the rules women set.[/quote]

Life for women before feminism was terrible and no bed of roses.  Feminism is good.  It however also requires women to become empowered, independent and mature.  The list above is great for men and women.  Become worthy of good things.  Remove the abundance/lack of sex from the reasons you want to get married and things become clearer.  Develop as a human being so that when you marry and have children, you have  a better chance to build something worthwhile in your professional and personal life.

- PP who made the list above.
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