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[quote=Anonymous]Op - a slight different scenario but I think you'll gain something from it. DH and I are retired. I decided I needed to lose weight (long overdue) and decided I needed to only be responsible for myself, myself only. No meal planning, cooking, shopping for the 2 or us, like I had always done. Instead, all of that, I do mine. He does his. Result: I have lost 35 pounds in a year. He now cooks for himself, shops for himself .. and he knows when we are about to run out of something, something he needs. If took time. But he was as spoiled as they come. Give each kid their own shelf in the frig. If you want to reimburse for groceries, let them give you receipts. Live like roommates would. I truly think, at their age, the way you are doing it, you are doing more harm than good.[/quote]
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