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[quote=Anonymous]This is the OP, must admit it was hard (very) but affirming to read this. I am actually going to show my sons and husband.

It took posting on there to realize how out of whack this is. I had a feeling it was but when you are in the throes of something you just go though the motions. It is going to be a BIG change and one that will take me probably longer than them to get used to.

I guess there is some part of me that loved feeling and being needed, yes to answer someone else I guess I do feel this is but one way I show my love. Even if one comes home late and is eating in the kitchen after we have all eaten I cannot leave him alone in the kitchen as I then "feel bad' he's alone. Crazy right?

I know everyone is right that I am not doing them a service to allow this kind of dependence. A friend recommended me to a therapist to help with this new transition and I called today to make an appt for next week.. Six degrees of separation soon to start. Thank you everyone for telling me what I needed to hear, as tough as it was to read.[/quote]

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