Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Family Relationships
Reply to "Future MIL Stress - Please Help!"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]OP, congrats on the upcoming wedding! I was once like you; I sought approval from my MiL and FiL. I tried to interpret their moves and to change my tone/approach/plans to please them. It did not change our relationship. It did not change the way my in-laws interacted with me. It DID drive me around the bend trying to read their minds and be overly solicitous. Be yourself and plan the wedding that you want to have. Ask MiL if there are any details she would like to help plan. She may want nothing more than an invitation. And learn now that, even if someone is family, it rarely suits to seek the approval of another person. Let it go.[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
