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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My expert opinion is, you can do anything you want.  Spoken another way from a rando guy on the internet, I'm sorry, I can't relate to the problems of someone who doesn't work and lives in a $4k a month apartment.  I'm sure you will land on your feet and be just fine.[/quote]

Wish all the randos on this thread snarking at OP for being an SAHM who's not at DH's side would focus on [b]the fact the DH moved out of state and is issuing commands to his wife to move or be divorced. The marriage was clearly in deep trouble already if a husband was willing to move halfway across the country without his kids and wife,[/b] then from afar threaten divorce and throw around the fact he's a lawyer (translation: he'll screw her in court). You have no idea why the OP is a SAHM (seems she followed him through his career moves; it's hard to build your own career while doing that and raising kids). You have no idea if she's staying put in that apartment because she fears moving to Texas is nothing but moving to a place where she'll be quickly stranded with no family, no friends, no lawyer and a DH who controls everything and wants a divorce. That seems to be what she'd get if she leaves that apartment you so resent.

OP, get a lawyer who had experience in divorces that cross state lines. Your DH sounds controlling; do you suspect he would fight for custody and create s nasty custody battle that he figures you cannot win? He sounds like he's gearing up for a fight. Tell family you need money for a good and experienced lawyer NOW. [/quote]

He moved for his JOB, which OP does not have (and presumably does not want to get, since mentioned staying a SAHM.)   How does she expect to pay the rent on her $4000/month apartment if no one in the family has a job?[/quote]

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