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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Unless you are a real oncologist, you are just an out of state friend playing doctor at a very stressful time for your friend.  Insensitive at best, flat out rude at worst.  In grounding the friendship it sounds like you both made out in this equation.[/quote]

OP here. Spoke to a Nurse Practitioner friend of mine the other day. She agrees with me - my data is correct, passing it along is fine, and friend can take it or leave it alone. Said the doctor might actually discuss it with them anyway. When her own father got cancer at 86, the oncologist suggested immunotherapy due to mets to his lungs, and actually did find and put him in a trial (free btw) as an companion to radiation which made him much more comfortable.

People like yourself come onto threads to stir up sh*t. It's annoying at best and immature at worst. I definitely made out. If she feels she did? Great.[/quote]

Your friend didn't call you to get medical advice.  She called you to get moral support and a shoulder to cry on during a very difficult time for her family.

You may have intended your words to be helpful but when you realized that you were just upsetting your friend you should have apologized and dropped it.  Instead you dumped your friend altogether which is sad.[/quote]

Actually, she didn't call me at all. I asked her how her mother was by text because she was doing her withholding behavior so she could follow it with the 'you know nothing and I'm so smart' behavior. Very predictable. I wouldn't have asked at all, except I actually like her mother and have known her for decades.

I love the way DCUM fills in the blanks to create stories to make their insults work better. Hilarious.[/quote]

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