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[quote=Anonymous]For both me and DH, our mothers are providing tons of assistance, in various ways, to our younger siblings. And, yes, it is unfair in a strict "one for you, one for me" sense. But, our siblings are disasters. Having kids much too young, having too many kids, not interested in parenting at all, unstable living situations.....you get the picture. DH and I have our $hit together. We don't need all the hand holding and support our siblings get. Still sucks to see, and it sucks that our kid gets short-changed as a result, but as I remind myself, "at least I'm not a hot mess." Besides, we couldn't handle having our moms that enmeshed in our lives. That would be awful.[/quote]
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