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[quote=Anonymous]It is usually a pattern already present in the family dynamic. Im the eldest of 4 (2 brothers and 1 step-sister). My step sister had children very early (like teens early) and has had everything done for her- she stayed with my parents with her first, never had to have a job, got a job, got pregnant again, moved in with her boyfriend and my parents paid for the security deposit (which was not refunded), and then they bought a house that she "rents" for 500-800 dollars below market rent. They watch her kids pretty much every weekend for either Friday or Saturday night. The guest bedroom is now Larlas bedroom and they have clothes/swimsuits/shoes, etc for when they stay. They offered to pay for her schooling- she said no.  :shock: and continues with her minimum wage job that requires subsidization by my parents so either way they are paying for it but she gets with doing less on her part. 
My kid will grow up seeing the difference and wonder why just like my brothers and I wondered. [/quote]

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