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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I went and got breakfast and groceries. When I come back I notice that he has moved from couch to the bed.

[b]I go in and coldly say,[/b] " I see you finally decided to come to bed."

He asks me where I was and I say I went to get food. I am annoyed that he is trying to ignore everything that happened last night. I then say coldly, " do you have something you want to say to me?"

He raises his voice, "do YOU have something to say to me?"

I stare at him amazed that he can turn this around. I ignore him and reference his mean words to me last night. He says he doesn't want to talk to me because I am "impossible and always angry." He gets up and walks to the bathroom. "Don't walk away," I say but he keeps walking away and then goes into the bathroom. I walk up to him and hold open the door and say angrily, " You can't keep ignoring me!"

He yells at me, "LEAVE ME ALONE!" and slams the bathroom door and pushes me away by doing so.

"STOP YELLING AT ME!"

I yell back.

He now left to grab lunch. I have no idea what is going on. :( [/quote]

Great start!  Bravo. [/quote]
DP.. I think anyone would be angry and respond coldly.  She has no idea what's going on and is trying to get him to talk to her. He's behaving like a child by not communicating what exactly the problem is. Yes, both sides should calm down, but I don't think she needs to be apologetic when she has no idea what she should be apologizing for.[/quote]

NP. If she's trying to get him to talk to her, why on earth would she open like that? Way to poison the "conversation" (if it can even be called that) from the get-go. She doesn't have to be apologetic, just say in a neutral tone that you are concerned about what he said last night and want to know what's bothering him. And then listen to what he says without constant sniping and contradicting.

This honestly reads like a bad novel from an airport newsstand. How do you seriously not see anything wrong from your side of the interaction after writing all that out? Yeah, he's not communicating well either, but you can only control one of you. It sounds like this has been building for awhile and he's finally exploded.[/quote]

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