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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Our bedroom wasn’t dead but there was barely a heartbeat. It really came down to our both coming clean that the sex just wasn’t very good with us doing the same thing for the same amount of time virtually every time. With very busy lives we just did it without getting into it. We were both at fault which helped us talk it through and then do something about it. I’m a teacher so I gave us an assignment for each of us to write down three things we’d like to do in bed and that it was OK for the other to say no if it was too much. For fun we had a “blind draw” and picked one of mine. My DH’s response was “really, I hope I can do it!”. Over a couple of weeks we did all six after which the dead bedroom was no more. That was about 15 years ago and the sex is still great.[/quote] What were the six things?[/quote] It was a long time ago and since is the non explicit forum I’ll be careful. One by me was tieing my wrists to the headboard with silk scarves. One of his involved ReadiWhip and I’ll leave it at that. The others were mostly fun positions sometimes outside the bedroom. All it requires is a little imagination or fantasy and a willingness to try new things but being able to say no. [/quote]
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