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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] You're conflating two things: It's not MIL's fault that she's obese and can't physically do all the things that your mother does. However no one should criticize your parenting or household. Perhaps your husband can address the latter with her, but not the former. [/quote] +1 You're also citing your mother's extraordinary help as some sort of standard by which others should act, which is ridiculous. OP, it is NOT ok for your MIL to criticize you, and that needs to be addressed with her by your husband. However, you also shouldn't dole out your time to people based on how helpful they are. We have some relatives that aren't helpful at all, but that doesn't mean we're going to drop them. [/quote]
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