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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why don't you just divorce instead of turning into a slut? Your marriage is obviously over if you are considering an affair.[/quote]

OP here. Well, let's see.  It is possible to love your family, children, and yet still desire other things.  My consideration of an affair doesn't mean I care about my family less than you care about yours, I am just thinking about it and putting my thoughts in an anonymous public forum.  I care about my marriage and neither my husband and I have a desire to end it, however, we are both upfront about the fact that there's something missing presently and I have voiced my desire to have an open marriage in the past.  He has never explicitly opposed it, but I doubt I'll ever get his blessing either.  As far as "blowing up" someone else's marriage, the man I am interested in is an adult, and he can make his own decisions.  Should I decide to let him know I'm interested, and he doesn't take the bait, I'm not going to continue the pursuit.  [/quote]

Wow. This is horrible and incredibly short-sighted. Your complete lack of integrity, morals, and empathy is very clear. I feel sorry for your husband and children that they have a sociopath for a spouse/parent. And of course there's also the other person's family! This will not end well. You cannot claim to care about your marriage, yet at the same time have an affair. What in the hell kind of ludicrous rationalization is your entire argument?

This is painful to read, because my child and I are dealing with the horrific fault-out from my sociopath ex-spouse's choices to have multiple affairs, amongst other terrible things.

I don't even know why I'm responding because you won't care and you're going to do whatever suits your own desires, no matter the outcome or who it hurts. 
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+1. I'm in the same boat as you, PP, and I agree. [/quote]

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