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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why don't you just divorce instead of turning into a slut? Your marriage is obviously over if you are considering an affair.[/quote]

OP here. Well, let's see.  It is possible to love your family, children, and yet still desire other things.  My consideration of an affair doesn't mean I care about my family less than you care about yours, I am just thinking about it and putting my thoughts in an anonymous public forum.  I care about my marriage and neither my husband and I have a desire to end it, however, we are both upfront about the fact that there's something missing presently and I have voiced my desire to have an open marriage in the past.  He has never explicitly opposed it, but I doubt I'll ever get his blessing either.  As far as "blowing up" someone else's marriage, the man I am interested in is an adult, and he can make his own decisions.  Should I decide to let him know I'm interested, and he doesn't take the bait, I'm not going to continue the pursuit.  [/quote]

Did you specifically ask your husband if he would divorce you if you had an affair with this particular person? If so, and he said no, then carry on. If not, why not?[/quote]

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