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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] You don't own your children. Beware of restricting their relationship with grandparents who adore them. Kids grow up fast and will make their own decisions soon enough. Your possessiveness is very likely to backfire on you or be emulated by your own children, shutting you out. What goes around comes around. [/quote]

You sound like one of the people that shouldn't have access to someone else's kids. Grandparents or extended relatives may "adore" them but if they are toxic people, bad mouth the parents, the kid s don't want to be with them, or they are not trustworthy then it really doesn't matter that you adore them now does it? Your hoping and threatening that the kids will turn on their parents and run into your arms when they are adults is very delusional.[/quote]

+1. Also, as a child whose parentsdisagreed on this and one caved to spending time with with the grandparent in question-I grew up and I understand why the other parent disn’t want us around them and we are all still upset with the parent who enabled it. Lifelong damage occured from the exposure. Ffs, no grandparent or relative is entitled to see someone’s kids, including their own grandkids. Behaving badly should get you cut off. [/quote]

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