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[quote=Anonymous]9:59 - I agree with you.  It's not that people need to necessarily be told to stay in their lane.  But it's likely that a very attractive female has a lot of options.  If she's getting hit on by 12 dudes, that's a lot of competition.  But there might be girls he knows that aren't quite as objectively beautiful but they might be amazing people and he might like them better than the hot chick if he took the time.  (Girls are guilty of this too.)

I have a couple of hot friends who are also absolute hot messes.  They are not especially good to the guys they date, and their lives are trainwrecks, but they get asked out constantly because they are hot.  It's discouraging to the guys who get rejected, and it can be bad for the women as well because it can be hard to pick one you might actually like when there are so damn many options, many of whom are just in it for the hotness.

So maybe the advice we should give is not "stay in your lane".  It should be to take your time to get to know people beyond their looks so you can better decide who you actually like.  (and gives them time to decide if they like you.)[/quote]

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