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[quote=Anonymous]You must be a SAHM.  If your son is young enough to be in diapers, it sounds like you are the one that needs to get out of the house (and rightly so), not your son.  Most importantly, get a car and go about doing the fun things you want with your son.  DH should have input in planning of course, but that way if something comes up last minute you arent stuck always home.  Or Uber if you must..but point is, carry on with the plans you made together with or without him.  Don’t do this “tit for tat” leave DH with son as soon as he gets home business being suggested.  That is immature.

I stay home too and have a husband that works long hours including weekends and often gets called in on “off” weekends or decides he needs to go in last minute all the time— I get what you are saying.  It gets a lot easier when the naps stop and you don’t have to be so rigid with your schedule.  I have three kids with the youngest being in diapers and napping still.  On the weekends when DH is around, we forgo naps and the toddler snoozes in the car on the way to an outing, on the way back, or in the stroller.  If I stuck to a strict 1-3 nap schedule on the weekends we would never get out the door as a family.  Give it a try.  I don’t think your DH means to be “putting you second” he probably just doesn’t the nap schedule and what the big deal is if you aren’t home at the exact right times for nap.  And he has a point.  I’ve lightened up with weekend naps as I’ve had more kids and it isn’t that big of a deal.  [/quote]

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