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Reply to "unplanned pregnancy - fourth kid potentially - impact on marriage/relationship"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Mother of 4 here and I'd like to offer another perspective. Most are saying what would you do if you and your husband divorce and you are stuck as a single mother of 4? But my question is what if he dies (or you die)? For whatever reason, people tend to leave death out of the equation, but that is exactly what happened to me. At the young age of 45, my husband died from a heart attack. Without warning I have been left to raise our 4 young children alone. Our number 4 was also an unplanned pregnancy, and we too considered abortion. I love all of my children, but I can't say I would have chosen this path had I known I'd be on it alone. So I say ask yourself the question of would you still go through with having #4 if your husband were to suddenly pass away, and vice versa for him. [/quote] I am so sorry.[/quote]
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