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[quote=Anonymous]Op here - my marriage is really happy - it’s not “rocky” lol - that’s an important and relevant question though so just wanted to eliminate that as a variable, along with the variable of politics (pro-choice v pro life).

Age is a factor as I am over 40, although I am as fit as I was in my 20s but more exhausted now.

Work/kids is a factor as I balance a full time pretty big job and kids now I am worried something might tip me over the edge of being able to juggle.  I have built a team at home and work and so maybe the scalability of 3 to 4 isn’t that high logistically if you have team to help scale up?

I’m really curious about the regret factor and appreciate people sharing their stories. There is confirmation bias out there because people only publicly tell you when they decide to keep their 4th, I doubt that anyone advertises to their friends when they don’t keep...

That is why I am on an anonymous forum to get those stories that people typically might be ashamed to share.....

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