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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you said you have daughters (boys are abused almost as often). If your kids are older teens that know about this, it's imperative that DH be discrete if he spends time with accused. He should know that continuing the relationship based on the no proof parade is something your kids will probably process silently. If daughters, they may question whether their own father would believe them in the same situation. Same for boys, maybe even worse if your DH is an alpha male that may not believe the stats on sexual abuse of boys/young men. If your kids are young and don't know, it is still something you should express to DH. Straight up question to DH, would he believe his daughter/son without proof? Would he believe them if they waited to come forward? Bring up the case of the gymnast who's father committed suicide because he did not believe his own young daughter was abused by Nassar. Double tragedy ... [/quote]
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