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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My AP and I have been seeing each other off and on for alost 5 years. Even though we get slong so well and love spending time with each other we both agree we could never have a real relationship together.

Part of why we get along so well is that we don't have all the baggage that being married has. At the start of our affair I could have seen myself leaving my DH for him but realized things would never be the same with him.

We make the most of our time together and thats where it ends. [/quote]

I didn't write this but that is exactly where I am with my AP as well. 5 yrs. Love him. But without the marriage baggage. [/quote]

Is it just chemistry? Hot sex?[/quote]

Do you feel like a long term affair has helped or hurt your marriage?  My marriage is reallly dead and it’s making me brighter and renstful. But we have  a going kid and divorce would be devastating. No interest in ever remarrying but sometimes think a long term AP whomisnt crazy would actually take the pressure off my own marriage and I would stop feeling so let down by DH.[/quote]

Im sure all people in affairs try to justify what they are doing. For me, being with him is like mini vacation once or twice a week that lets me recharge and take my mind off everything else. So in that sense it is a release for me that I feel helps our marriage.

We have amazing chemistry, and yes the sex is great too. I wouldnt be sleeping with him this long if it wasnt.

I had to stop and think if it would bother me if he was having an affair as well. If Im being totally honest it would probably sting a little but I dont think it would hurt me. [/quote]

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