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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Unless husbands are total assholes I have trouble understanding women who don’t occasionally have sex even if they aren’t in the mood. My libido is lower than my DH’s, he’s a good partner and a great dad. Sometimes he’ll initiate and while I’m not in the mood I can “fake it till I make it.” I don’t fake orgasms but I can be an enthusiastic partner even if I’m not initially into it. I do it bc it’s important to him and I love him.[/quote]

Even if the husband is an a-hole, how does that translate to a wife believing that not having sex with him is a good idea?

Presumably you married the guy with an awareness of his strengths and weaknesses, and presumably, sex was part of the marital understanding.

If your husband was being an a-hole, would that justify letting the kitchen garbage overflow, or letting the dog poop all over the couch, and not cleaning up after it?

"I'm not going to clean up that dog poop because my husband is an a-hole."

"I'm not going to empty the kitchen garbage can because my husband is an a-hole."

You're supposed to have sex with someone because in the first place you married them because you liked to have sex with them.

You shouldn't have married them if you didn't like to have sex with them.

If you never liked to have sex with them but pretended otherwise, why is that your partner's fault?[/quote]

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