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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Let's take a step back for a quick minute.

Can we all agree that this isn't about the one night feeding?  No one calls the cops about a single night feeding.  There is an underlying issue here, probably multiple.  Yes, DH was a jerk and pulled an insane move to call the cops.  No doubt about that.  But what has been happening in the months/years prior to this incident?

Call me whatever name you want but an unprovoked call to the cops doesn't sound like it's all one sided where DH is at fault for everything under the sun.  I don't want to victim blame and I'm not doing that but I just want to know more about what the underlying relationship was all about and how it was going before this incident.

Isn't anyone else curious about the length of the relationship, how DH has treated DW before they had kids, how old both parties are, what cultures they come from, etc?  How is it that DCUM automatically jumps to, this marriage can't be save, counseling doesn't work for DH, and get a divorce?

Sounds like both parties are somewhat at fault in the relationship but in this specific incident, DH went way too far in calling the cops.

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NP.  There are always two sides but what strikes me about OP's story and makes me side with her is that the DH refused to help the baby.  Obviously he was doing it to spite her, but decent people who truly have their children's best interests at heart, wouldn't do that no matter how they were feeling toward their spouse/partner in the moment.  He could've helped the baby and THEN called the cops if there was a concern about how things would go with the OP - although if that was the case, why would he continue to bring the baby back to OP if he thought she was going to fly off the handle or do something?

This sounds like a man who has no regard for his own child's well-being and who is more concerned about positioning himself to be the blameless party and making OP look bad for whatever reason.  [/quote]

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