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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Let's take a step back for a quick minute.

Can we all agree that this isn't about the one night feeding?  No one calls the cops about a single night feeding.  There is an underlying issue here, probably multiple.  Yes, DH was a jerk and pulled an insane move to call the cops.  No doubt about that.  But what has been happening in the months/years prior to this incident?

Call me whatever name you want but an unprovoked call to the cops doesn't sound like it's all one sided where DH is at fault for everything under the sun.  I don't want to victim blame and I'm not doing that but I just want to know more about what the underlying relationship was all about and how it was going before this incident.

Isn't anyone else curious about the length of the relationship, how DH has treated DW before they had kids, how old both parties are, what cultures they come from, etc?  How is it that DCUM automatically jumps to, this marriage can't be save, counseling doesn't work for DH, and get a divorce?

Sounds like both parties are somewhat at fault in the relationship but in this specific incident, DH went way too far in calling the cops.

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No, both parties are not at fault. The abusive husband is at fault.

At first he was great, sometimes amazing, and then, slowly, he became dissatisfied. Then he started picking on her. It seemed like nothing she could do was right. And all she would do was provoke him. He turned over furniture or thew things out (her things), or threw things. But he would be sorry, or not acknowledge it at all, and everything would be great again. But she just wouldn't stop provoking him. Slowly she saw her friends and family less (he didn't like them) and she could never relax because she never felt at ease at home. [/quote]

Only one party is at fault for threatening violence for being asked to take over a common parenting duty and then calling the cops to say he's being provoked - and I'll give you a hint - it's not the OP.[/quote]

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