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[quote=Anonymous]OP, your plan sounds good to me. If getting him involved is draining you emotinally, clearly, especially for the sake of your kids you need to stop or cut back down to your comfort zone.

Also, I have been you (living your plan) for the last 5ys. Your kids are younger and it will get better. Was just planning dd 5th bday and already had everything set to have the kids come in during his office hours and was actually surprised by dh requesting to host party on a Sunday when he won‘t be out of town! I‘m very happy for our family and dd - it‘s never too late for things to change.

While it‘s great to grow up with an engaged dad, I truly believe that children suffer more if their family is ripped apart. For us it may seem sad and constantly too little effort but I know that kids who don‘t have that value every tiny piece of fun or play dearly. They don‘t know it any other way.

And one thing our kids have only one father and this is the guy WE moms chose for them. How does it make sense to adivse to take that little family time and cosiness away from them that they still have?

Hang in there, OP.[/quote]

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