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Reply to "anyone drop the rope with their spouse?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Op, I would have one serious conversation about this and leave the choice to him. at a certain point, he needs to assume responsibility for particioi in the family, right now he's shifted all the burden on you. And when he says "gee I'm glad I did this," he's reinforcing that split. Ultimately it's his decision as to how much of an involved parent and spouse he is. Tell him you want and desire his involvement but it's not fair to make you emotionally responsible for his involvement. My only other our e if advice is that this is the time to throw money st the problem. Get babysitting, housecleaners, meals delivered. The thing I would want most with more money is to use it for precious positive time with kids, and necessary breaks from them too.[/quote]
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