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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's not illegal to take pictures of strangers in public.  Agree that your DS was acting dangerously.[/quote]

Agreed. Though what that guy did is weird and gross, it likely wasn't illegal. And it sounds like your son was possibly trying to impress the girls in his group as much as any other motivation. [/quote]

DS does not need to impress the girls in their group. They have been friends for years (pretty much have grown up together) and [b]DS is super well-liked by the girls for his calm demeanor. [/b]So, I do not think his motivation was anything but to stop this weirdo taking his friends' picture in the subway; especially since the girls were uncomfortable. My only issue was he should not have confronted this older man alone - I do not know if there was security person he could have approached (not familiar about how that works in NY metro).[/quote]

Ok, mom.  :roll: [/quote]

I do not know why you have to roll your eyes in an anonymous forum. This is what I know from the girls who visit our home often. Their group meets every week in one kid's home and we know all the boys and girls in that group. So, I am fairly certain he does not have to impress any of the girls in their group. In fact, I am also told by all the parents of the kids how DS is responsible and helpful when he visits their homes.

Yes, I think, it was stupid for him to confront a stranger in a subway, even though his reasons were right. I will not second guess his reason, even when I do not agree with how he handled it. I am still proud of him. [/quote]

DP.  It's fine to be proud of him.  I'm just not sure how you can really truly know whether HE feels like he has to impress one (or more) of the girls. He might like one of the girls who was being photographed and that could have played a part in why he confronted the man.  Most 16yo boys do not discuss their feelings for girls with their mothers, so I question how you can be so sure this had nothing to do with it.

It's not like he'd be the first guy to do something dumb to get a girl's attention, however mild-mannered and responsible he may otherwise be. [/quote]

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