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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Interesting how his wife Myst be abusive if she doesn't like you sniffing around her husband.[/quote]

Paranoia isn’t sexy.[/quote]

And being overly interested in another woman's husband is usually not a smart thing.[/quote]

I was friends with him long before she was the picture have no designs on him other than friendship. I’m sorry you’re so terrified your husband’s going to fall for someone else and leave you, but projecting your emotional issues on everyone else isn’t going to help.[/quote]

Oh, get over yourself.  He married her.  That's the person he's committed himself to whether you like her or not.  Judging from this post she probably has valid reasons for hating you.  You sound pushy and disrespectful towards their marriage.  If you really cared about your friend you would make more of an effort to be on good terms with his wife.  But I sense an "eff her" mentality on your part.[/quote]

I was married before he even met her, it’s not like I was sitting around hoping he’d fall for me.  I’ve never anything but kind and pleasant to her, her hatred of me is her issue, not mine.  Just like your emotions are your issue, not hers.[/quote]

So you'll continue to get together with him for coffee, drinks, whatever whether she likes it or not, right?  That is certainly your choice to make.  I just would not be comfortable seeing him under those circumstances.  If I did get together with him I would want my own husband and probably other friends around, too.[/quote]

Sounds like you know you can’t trust yourself around men.  That’s not true for everyone, but it’s good to know your own flaws and be careful with them.[/quote]

Uh, no.  But if my good male friend had a jealous wife like that I would go out of my way to avoid any appearance of impropriety on my part.  I'm not generally a sh*t stirrer.[/quote]

You are the problem, not the wife.

Leave married men alone.[/quote]

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