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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well duh, they have had sex in months or years.
And why is that? When a spouse loses respect, trust, or connection with you, you stop having sex. You have to repair the respect, trust and connection to resume having sex.

[b]That process is too difficult for some so they’d rather call it whites and bang new women after their divorce.[/b] [/quote]

It is [i]always[/i] better to spend time and effort getting new women than it is to attempt to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.[/quote]

I dunno, undivided assets? Full time with your children vs. part time?  Maybe you don't value it. People are different.[/quote]

Our assets, except for the house, were separate before the divorce. Financially I'll be better off without her. [b]And I'll have 50/50 custody. 
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The bottom line is, no matter what [i]I [/i]valued, she got a vote, too. She voted to make no effort to repair the marriage. Didn't matter what I did, nothing got any traction with her. [/quote]

What a weird response. If I shoot one of your eyes out, would you be pleased you still have the other one left? If I chop off one of your legs and arms, would you be like, I still have 50% of them?

100% is better than 50%. Always.

Also, unless your wife brings no income, I don't believe you'd be better off financially.  Two incomes afford a better lifestyle than one.[/quote]

"If I shoot one of your eyes out, would you be pleased you still have the other one left? If I chop off one of your legs and arms, would you be like, I still have 50% of them?" -- in those specific cases, yeah!

"100% is better than 50%. Always. " -- Nope. It depends. 50% in a happy home is better than 100% in a violent, constant conflict home, for example. And this is also irrelevant. As I said, she got a vote in the decision to divorce.

"Also, unless your wife brings no income, I don't believe you'd be better off financially.  Two incomes afford a better lifestyle than one."

LOL, no, just the opposite, I'd be [i]much[/i] worse off if she had no income, because then I'd have to pay huge child support. She makes enough that there is no spousal or child support. After the divorce, she will have to pay for things that she does not have to pay for now, which means more money for me. [/quote]

Wouldn't you, too?

Two incomes buy a better lifestyle than one. [/quote]

I’m recently divorced. I made 60% of our household income. Spouse made 40%. We share custody 50/50 so I pay child support, but not an outrageous amount. No alimony. We both kept our retirement accounts. I bought out spouse’s equity in the house and kept the house, spouse bought a house a mile away. Yes, things are tight, but it is do-able. I like having complete control over my money. [/quote]

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