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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Anonymous wrote:
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Stop focusing on diversity. Op, you can be put off by attitudes. Demographics are what they are. It does you no good to focus on the lack of diversity.

Easy to say when you are not the minority or am slammed with ignorant comments about your background. I live in this same area and am also mixed race. Do you know how many times people have assumed I grew up in the ghetto or seem shocked that I grew up in a household with a normal mother and father[/quote]

Do you want to make things better? Offer information. Offer information about yourself right away. Should you have to? No. Should you have to live with bigoted people's assumptions? No. But it is what it is. If you don't want to be victim then tweak your communication -- for your own sake. Or is it easier to just complain? I have an MD friend, born and raised in Illinois. Went to med school in Illinois. She's clearly of Indian decent. She asked why people assume she's not from the US, with US med school credentials. Who cares whY? The answer to her problem is obvious, if it bothers her, when she introduces herself to patients she can it find a way to mention her back round. "Oh, I see you're from xx part of the country ... I've never been there. I grew up and went to med school in Illinois"
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