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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm disgusted by this whole thread because people here want the man to be BOTH totally committed to their kids AND move on a be totally dedicated to the new spouse.

The whole scenario of no-fault divorce initiated by wives the majority of the time puts fathers in an untenable situation where the ex-wives, kids and society tells them they need to sacrifice themselves for the kids else they are bad fathers and their wives were right for divorcing them while simultaneously telling them they need to set boundaries and move on.

Men are treated as expendable EXCEPT when you need them for their skills with regard to anything from money to house repairs. [/quote]

I get neither money nor house repairs from my ex husband.  I’m fully capable of taking care of myself.  My ex is an okay dad, no worse or better since the divorce.  But he is not a player in my current life, outside of being the father of my children.  I don’t know why so many women continue to rely on their ex-husbands for assistance.  Either learn to fix things yourself or hire someone.  [/quote]

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