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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, you must know that anonymity on DCUM is rare.  Again, I am a stepmom.  I’m not anti-stepmom.  But you are extraordinarily selfish.  Of course DH’s family is hostile to you!  You are hurting his kids and your kids are strangers!  And it seems like you may well have had a big part in breaking up his marriage.

Why in earth should your stepkids have had to switch schools just because YOU wanted to get married?!!! And now you think that they need therapy it’s all of you?  Seriously, every word you write reveals an astonishing level of self-centered ness.[/quote]

This.  OP, you are being so selfish!  That's not an adequate reason for the children to change schools.  No wonder they hate you.  After they've already been through a divorce and too-early remarriage and have to share their father and get way less time with them, you want them to give up their school and their friends as well?  My god.  This is not going to work out and you are going to end up divorced because of your selfishness.

You have FIVE children.  You chose a household with FIVE CHILDREN. [b] Parents of five children do not get a week off every other week. [/b] It isn't realistic, it's selfish, and you're putting the burdens of your choices on innocent children.[/quote]

A big +1 to this.  No healthy family of five kids elevates the marriage above the children to this extent. [/quote]

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