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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need to work hard on your communication issues. Tell her how you feel. She needs to respect your feelings.[/quote]

No, no, no. Men are supposed to let women emote all over them, but women hate, hate, hate it when men emote on women. Talk about your feewings and she will despise you, not respect you. Tell your shrink if you want but if you tell DW she will regard you as weak, pouty, and butthurt.[/quote]

Uh...you are nuts. This is how adults act:
DH: could you please cool it with speculating about what the donor will make the baby look like.
DW: Oh I'm so sorry, I didnt mean to hurt your feelings

The end. [/quote]

Umm... no... reality:

DH: Will you please stop speculating about what the donors will make the baby look like.
DW: Why? I'm supper excited about the baby. You should be too! Why aren't you excited? Why can't you be happy for me!!!! 
DH: I am happy and I want to be part of the experience with you but some of the things you say hurt my feelings and alienate me.
DW: You knew I was using donor sperm. You agreed and it is not fair to turn this around on me now! Are you going to be like this the whole time I'm pregnant? I'm doing this because YOU couldn't have a baby! Don't blame me about how you are feeling.

not the end.... gets brought up over and over by DW after child is born when she gets mad when she "reminds" with a misrepresented memory about how DH ruined her excitement about the baby and had second thoughts (even though that wasn't what it was about) and in her worst moments uses the phrase "my baby" and says he/she isn't your child anyway....

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Yep. Exactly. And then she complains to her mom and all her friends that it was bad enough that her husband's seed was too weak to make her pregnant, but now he is weak, pouty and butthurt about the baby, which adds insult to injury![/quote]

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