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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It sounds so pretentious. “We don’t do juice.” “We don’t do malls.”  “We don’t do tablets.” It’s always said by parents with kids 5 and under too. For example if someone asked me if my kids liked pop tarts I would just respond “oh they haven’t tried them yet.” Instead of saying “We don’t do pop tarts.” [/quote]

It’s less pretentious than “I don’t give my kids juice” or “I don’t take my kids to malls.”[/quote

No, it sounds much MORE pretentious.

I don't give my kid's X means you made a choice not to give them X.

We (almost like the royal "we") don't do X is a statement that not only means you don't give your child X, but it implies that X is distasteful and you don't agree with others giving X either.  The height of pretension.  Not only a statement, but a judgment of others who do.

"We don't do tablets" means that not only do these parents not allow their children tablets but they disagree with screen time for children.  It's a judgmental and boorish phrase.[/quote]

I'm looking for alternative statements.  Should I just say, "We are trying our best not to expose our child to games on phones or other devices"?  Then, should I pick different friends if they don't put them away?[/quote]

Please do, so the rest of us can reply that we don't do pinterest wanna be crunchy mom bloggers, and ask you to stop befriending us.

Sure, say that.  Or say that your kid doesn't play with them.

I think "we don't do" has a super snooty air to it, but I could be wrong.  I'll have to listen carefully the next time it's said.  I think, however, that it's only been said in a snooty tone so far to my ears.[/quote][/quote]

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