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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've cheated several times over the years and have never been caught by my DW. I think it's because they are spaced out encounters with people who are also married and [b]value discretion[/b]. It doesn't change my interactions or relationship with my DW. I love her and the life we've built together- we're just not sexually compatible. I knew it when we were young, but I also knew she was otherwise a great match for me and would be a great wife and mother. [/quote]

Love your values!

Maybe your wife wouldn't think you are such a great match for her after she, or eventually your kids, find out about your discreet affairs.  It sounds like you are doing your wife a favor by staying with her.  [/quote]

Your snark is not appreciated one bit.

I for one respect the PP value position and give them even more kudos for the fact that he still loves his life.

You will be hard pressed to find a man who checks all these boxes and here you are trying to be sarcastic. [/quote]

NP. Yes really loves his wife :)[/quote]

Yeah, this isn't love or respect, this is manipulation.  If PP really valued his wife, he would give her real information and let her be a decision maker in her own life.  Anything less is disrespectful to the wife. It is the PP substituting his perception of how she would react and what she would want instead of allowing her to choose.  Adulterers do this and pretend that they are some kind of hero for conducting their affairs discreetly so that the wife isn't "hurt".  This is so false it is really mind-boggling people fall for this line of argument.[/quote]

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