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[quote=Anonymous]It mattered the first time I was married. My husband grew up pretty low class and I did not. It became an issue when we had kids. I went to boarding school and wanted our son to go as well. It became a huge issue for us. My ex could not understand why I wanted to spend $50K on tuition. Things like that really got in the way. I knew my older son was not ready to go to college and wanted him to do a gap year and travel. Ex husband would have none of that. My son lasted a semester. I understand that even when you grow up in a lower class, you still know what to do, but it was a huge issue for us. I am now engaged to someone who also grew up in a lower class, but was a striver. He had something in him that made him want to be and do better. His kids did really well. While there are some things that I expose him to, it's not as bad and he is open. I also don't care as much since we aren't raising kids together. He is also great about attending all of the events, etc. that I have to go to. He's happy to be along for the ride.[/quote]
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