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[quote=Anonymous]I have a SN son that is 13 --- I agree with serious repercussions that include written apologies and loss of screen time or whatever DC values for short time. But, I don't think you will get far with 3 months of punishment -- that isn't going to help in most cases --- too long to be tied to the offense - especially for a kid who struggles. You need, with the therapy team, to put in place a new positive reward system - every day that he behaves (no hitting, no whatever) he gets small reward or points to a small reward - -otherwise how to you show DC what is expected of DC and how to behave. I get this is a serious offense --- but it's not a 16 year old that broke curfew - this is a kid who likely doesn't have a great sense of actions and reactions. That's what needs to be taught and smaller doses work better.[/quote]
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