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Reply to "Would you date a woman in her mid twenties with 2 toddlers?"
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[quote=Anonymous]"Mothers can focus on many things. Children need not consume all your breathing hours. I mean your mother must have gone to work every day? Put one foot in front of the other? So she WAS capable of focusing on something other than you, even for a few hours a day." A woman who starts focusing on a man who excites her is going to put her kids on the back burner and they WILL suffer. "Also, children rarely understand what makes their parents content or what their happiness requires. Children are rarely capable of seeing their parents as separate beings who have other thoughts and feelings unrelated to their children. I don't say this as a judgment, only an observation." And so what? You are SUPPOSED to put them first, before yourself, EVEN if they don't understand that you are a "separate being" who is not happy. Your idea that mom REQUIRES contentment and happiness, if necessary at the expense of her children, is profoundly wrongheaded.[/quote]
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