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[quote=Anonymous]I don’t get these responses.  OP, you need to separate the issues in your own head and approach him.

As far as money, get on the same page with your DH about your budget and expenses.  Express to him what you expressed here, and be prepared to hear his feedback.  If it means both of you get to spend more, okay.  If it means he cuts back, then he needs to stick to it.  I assume if he had gone out with friends and spent $10, you wouldn’t bad as upset as you are here.  It doesn’t matter if DCUM thinks you can’t afford a third kid, or if manicures are not worth it vs. paying for a social life.  YOU might find great rejuvenation in getting a mani, and the rest of us don’t.  It’s all noise, because what matters here is personal spending money, and what you and your husband can agree on.

As far as him spending more time with you, discuss that separately. Et cetera.

If you find that he doesn’t want to discuss these things, gets angry with you, or lies and agrees to stuff but does he wants any, you have much, much bigger marital issues.[/quote]

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