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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I personally think manicures, pedicures, and massages are frivolous. I think going out with friends is only slightly frivolous, especially if you are watching what you order. He should clear this stuff with you if money is that tight. But also you need to offload that property. Price it to sell. [/quote]

I agree with you and that is why I have no problem cutting them, but I was doing some of that before and I do enjoy it. It relaxes me and helps with some water retention that I have during pregnancy. He did not however choose a cheap bar where he could have some beers. He did this (and ldunnersband more) 8 times (I counted) since the beginning of December. Yesterday they went to a fancy hotel bar where each fancy drink costs $15 (that is what he said... it might be more). It’s inconsiderate and embarassing. My dad asked me if DH was drunk because he came home speaking weird and fell asleep on the couch at 6:30 pm with kids playing a screaming around. It was obvious. My mom knows everything and I think this was a big mistake I made. She saw me crying and came to my room and I let it slip about the money stuff. Of course now my parents are worried. I wish this had happened when my parents were not around, but DH should have thought about it twice before coming home drunk while my parents are here. Ther was no way for me to protect him once he showed up at home.

We had a phone call meeting at 5 with our accountant. And DH has numbers, etc. I couldn’t do it alone (had I known he was going to come home 1 hour + the tim hee promised, I would have gotten the number called the accountant myself... anyway. I am still very upset and so are my parents unfortunately... DH is acting as if nothing hapoened

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