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[quote=Anonymous]MIL pulled this stuff from the beginning of our relationship and it nearly killed our relationship. Especially bc she was horrible to me. We started setting boundaries, which she refused to respect, and since her expectations for the visit were in direction opposition to my own, DH did actually have to make a choice. He chose me and our family. So now, 10 yrs later, she gets 1 visit every 6 mo to a year for 3-nights, and she is no longer welcome to stay in our home. If she ignores the time parameters we put on the visit, and adds extra days, we refuse to see her for the extra time. It was a painful process that took years but She finally stopped booking extra days. [/quote]
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