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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The man needs to earn, the woman needs to do most of the chores, and she needs to be willing to have sex with him on a regular basis.

OP, you mentioned nothing at all about even having a sex life.  I suspect you put it on the back burner and your husband has been looking for and possibly getting strange at these music festivals.

Sometimes the clue is not in what is said, but in what is left out.  You didn't mention sex at all.  It's unimportant to you or you would have at least mentioned it or the lack of it.   I'll bet it's still very to your husband. [/quote]

Sorry your just incorrect here.  Our sex life was always from when we met at 21 until now at 37 very good and regular.  To address others, we are also both above average intelligence I'd say and money has only become an issue the last few years when my income went up significantly and that doesn't mean any money problems we are pretty well off, he says he just feels emasculated.  He actually seems surprised he feels this way but he says in honesty he does.

Drug use and hiding it (secret keeping just in the last year) seems to be the biggest challenge and the fact that he just doesn't feel fulfilled by our life of raising kids and working.  He says he feels like life is pointless.  He doesn't get anything out of watching out children succeed and thrive it seems.  I also think he is spoiled a bit and will soon realize just what can of life I have been affording him and regret this.  I just feel like if he would just come back to earth and get sober and some counseling for us and him we could work through this.  Why throw your life away?[/quote]

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