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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have any of the happily marrieds have arguments where the other spouse has just been cruel? I sort of feel like we’ve had several of these over the course of the last decade, and each has done permanent and cumulative damage. There is just no going back to how things were early on. Desire to divorce ebbs and flows. We get along well enough and worry about divorce with kids. After another recent day of behavior that I think crossed the line of civility, I’m back to strategizing about life without him. He seems to have gotten it out of his system and wants to apologize and move on. I suppose counseling is in order, but I honestly think I may be at the point of not even wanting it. Anyway, most strong marriages I see do not appear to involve such nastiness, even on rare occasions or even once... [/quote]

We have.  DH and I have had every bad experience- lack of money, unemployment, a child with a severe health condition, horrible meddling in-laws.  We have taken our frustrations out on each other.  But somehow our marriage persevered.

Was “intimacy” the key to getting through that?  I don’t know.  Intimacy could mean any number of things.  I only know that DH and I stuck through it and love each other.  But the bad times were BAD.[/quote]

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