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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So many threads on this. I think because society makes people feel guilty for having "just" one. That's dumb but it is a real pressure. The best advice I have heard about this is from a friend with 2. She said that while she loves her children very much and is very grateful and happy she has them, she appreciates the deliberate choice to have 1 so much more now that she has them, and often regrets not making it. Some commenters with little ability to see thoughtful nuance may jump all over this, but it is an honest, truly human statement that I think people in your situation should understand before making important decisions. [/quote] Wait... so she wishes she had stopped at 1? Most people with multiple kids would never want only 1, but of course can appreciate that some (many) things are easier with just 1[/quote]
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