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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here: [b]My sister has said our stepdad didn't touch her but he looked at her and made her feel uncomfortable.[/b] Of course he looked at us. He also helped us with homework, sports, etc.

She won't help care for my mom but I really think it's her selfishness. [b]She has a very busy social and career life.[/b] No, I don't ask my mom to pay me for going to see about her. Maybe I should but that seems really mercenary. I consider it part of my family responsibility. By the same token my sister's neglect doubles the amount I need to do so I don't think she's entitled to half.[/quote]

Could it be that sister was prettier and thus a target of stepdad's lecherous looking? Could that have made OP jealous [b]because the male in the house was paying the sister more attention[/b]?

OP also sound[b]s jealous of sister's social life and career.[/b] Perhaps this is more about sibling rivalry and a case of sour grapes as far as OP is concerned and she is justifying it to show that she is a better daughter to her mother.  In reality, a good daughter would give her parents the happiness of thinking that the relationship between the siblings was loving, even if it was a pretence for the sake of parents. [/quote]

Your points are really bizarre. I don't know any woman who thinks that way. *Shudder*
And her being jealous? My siblings do most of the caretaking and I would absolutely insist they get more than me. It seems only fair. [/quote]

Do you know any women who think it’s cool for a man to leer at his stepdaughters?[/quote]

What's the difference between leering and looking?  In my experience, most men look. Even at their own daughters. As long as its not accompanied by touching, dirty remarks...I can't get too worked up. A lot of younger women are broadening the definition of abuse to the point that it means nothing. Women who are actually abused are disbelieved because of this.
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This is so gross. I hate to think of what you might be excusing under your own roof.[/quote]

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