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Stop dissecting every single glance, tone and gesture, OP. It's not healthy, and not normal. You're looking for ways to be offended at this point.

Your SIL may or may not be trying to get a rise out of you, but that's HER problem. Don't make it yours.
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I also noticed that you tried to be the “good one” for FIL. That’s your SIL’s dad and they have special relationship with him that none of your buisness.[/quote]

OP here. I was not trying to play "the good one." I have very little interaction with the IL because they do not like me and because of the aggression displayed by SIL. I literally only interact with them 2-3 times a year. I do not butt in her business or attempt to talk to her as she has made it clear I am not welcome. I felt bad for FIL and was merely attempting

Also previously SIL had bitched to MIL about how I don't help out when I am at their house. I heard this and was trying to contribute and help more when I was over. But now...apparently my helping out is also a problem. I just don't know what to do. [/quote]

As someone who also deals with mean sil, my take is do what you want. Regarding dress of what you say or do your sil will have an issue.  So it may as well be what makes you the happiest. [/quote]

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