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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If your wife was posting, this is why I would recommend her NOT to get other family members involved in your marriage business.  Makes it harder to stay and plug away at fixing the marriage.

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Op here. I completely agree and wish that they hadn't been involved at all. Not because I am looking for the easy way out, but I think my wife really wants to salvage things and now the involvement of her family is making things much harder for her because they all hate me so much. But it is what it is. [/quote]

I think it would be helpful for you if you stopped considering it in this regard/reframed it. You did a wrong thing. Because of what you did, your wife needed support, and reached out to her family. It's fortunate for her she had them to support her. If she had told her friends instead of her family you'd have the exact same situation, except with different people.

It's fortunate for you she's willing to work through it, and unfortunate that other people are now involved. However, your actions are still the genesis of this entire situation. Unless her family is actually being rude to you or barring you from family gatherings, in which case she needs to step in and ask them to respect her decision, you need to suck it up and deal with the awkwardness. [/quote]

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