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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Loser flags for me 
1. Doesn’t have a job, can’t keep a job, doesn’t have a vision of what they want to do with their career. Salary doesn’t matter to me, it’s about purpose, passion, and work ethic. 
2. Doesn’t know how to “adult” once they have been out of college 2-3 years. An adult goes to the dentist twice a year, keeps their car maintained and registered, gets haircuts regularly, buys their own clothes, can buy groceries and cook some basic meals, can manage a budget, etc.

I don’t think being close to your family of origin makes you a loser. If that is important to him and you don’t see yourself fitting into that dynamic, then you are not a good fit. I’m not close like that to my family, but I wouldn’t think of less of people that are close knit with their family. [/quote]

So, DCUM moms, ask yourself this question - are you raising a loser? Do your sons know how to do all that stuff? Do they even know they [i]should[/i] know how to do all that stuff?

The amount of high-intensity helicopter parenting that I see every day makes me wonder about the future self-reliance of these kids. They don't know how to do anything themselves, because mommy has always been there for them making things happen.[/quote]

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