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[quote=Anonymous]I divorced my first husband over an addiction.  Alcohol in his case but it was still an addiction that had taken over his life and created huge distance between us. It took me many years to figure out that I needed to leave, and during those years my ex went to AA and therapy (it helped but he continued to spiral downward). The stress on me was incredible.

Through my own support group I met many people who had partners who healed and marriages that stayed together.  So I’m not preaching divorce by any stretch.  I want to urge you to take steps to take care of yourself.  And not the pedicure and yoga version (although go for those, too, if it helps).  Give yourself space to think.  See your own therapist.  Sleep enough, eat well, keep your blood moving (walks and regular exercise, not time to train for a marathon).  Remember at all times that your main job is to take care of yourself.  Your decisions will flow from there if you listen to yourself.  Hugs to you.  [/quote]

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