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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I read the updates. I think the bottom line is your prior job traveling overseas frequently wasn’t family friendly. Whether you stay married to the spouse that is no help at all or decide to divorce, you need to make your logistical decisions like you are a single mom. If you were a single mom, you would not have your kid in a private school that required all this volunteering unless you had an extremely flexible and /or part-time job. I agreed with the PP that said a man with his back against the wall and strapped for time would not say he has to “volunteer”. If you went the nanny or aupair route you would want to find someone that does light house hold stuff like feeding the kids and helping with their laundry and flex your hours so they aren’t going over the weekly amount. There isn’t much you can do to force another adult to do something but you can make decisions that make your life easier.[/quote]
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